47 Ways To Make Her Love You
June 26, 2012, 11:44 am menshealth
It's easy when you know how, right? Well then, here's the know-how.
10 ways to make a woman fall in love with you
by Louella Vaz | in
After you meet a woman
and date her, you get to know her better. You probably start feeling
closer to her and may even find yourself falling in love with her. But
her feelings may still remain a mystery to you. You’re not even sure
whether you’re doing things right. How can you get her to fall in love
with you? Here are 10 ways that you can make a woman fall in love with
you, and at the end of it, she’s sure to be crazy about you.
1. Display maturity
It’s always said that
women mature faster than guys and are often found complaining about how
immature they act. Impress her with the way you deal with situations
and your outlook on the whole. Show her how responsible you are about
finances, or serious you are about your career. And demonstrate your
ability to think clearly and rationally when disagreements crop up or a
conflict of interests presents itself.
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2. Romance her
Make her feel good by
keeping the romance alive in the relationship. You don’t have to spend
a whole lot of money doing this. Sure, there isn’t a woman alive who
doesn’t adore flowers and gifts, but you can also do things that don’t
cost a lot but can still enhance your relationship. Write her little
notes or send her a mushy card. Call her up just to tell her you’re
thinking about her and can’t wait to see her again. Be attentive and
make her feel cherished and truly special.
3. Faithful
Don’t ever give her occasion to doubt you. Let her
know that you have eyes only for her and the rest of the world takes a
backseat. Let her sense your commitment to her and your relationship.
Being able to trust someone and truly rely on him is a very powerful
feeling. So many people profess deep feelings and then cheat on their
partners. Don’t just tell her but show her that she can count on you.
Women need to feel secure and once that is established, it takes the
relationship to a higher level.
4. Time spent with her is precious
Make it clear that you
really treasure the time you spend with her, irrespective of what
you’re doing together. And prove it! For instance, if she suddenly
tells you she’d like to meet you because she’s finishing work early and
you had something else lined up, cancel it for her. That doesn’t mean
you cater to her to the exclusion of everything else, just that you
sometimes sacrifice something you care about to be with her. If she
begs you to come see a movie and you had plans with your buddies, do it
for her and let her know subtly that you did. She will surely reward
you! Women also love it if you do some girly stuff with them like
shopping for lingerie, and aren’t afraid of sacrificing your
masculinity in the process. It just makes you more of a man in their
eyes!
5. Compliment her
You don’t have to go over
the top always telling her how good she looks or how gorgeous her hair
is or what a lovely outfit she’s wearing. A compliment has more effect
when it is sincere, well timed and often, out of the blue. While a
woman always loves hearing that she’s looking good, you can’t keep
telling her that. It will lose its charm eventually. A compliment is
valued when there is a surprise element to it. Telling her how witty
you find her, how her intelligence turns you on, appreciating how
thoughtful and generous she can be, or her gentle nature, all these are
deeper compliments, which, when paid sincerely, make the recipient feel
ten feet tall.
6. Laughter
Use humor as your biggest
ally. If she enjoys your company and looks forward to seeing you again,
you’re rapidly becoming an addiction, and that’s just what you’re
aiming for. It’s not about making her laugh over your one-liners and
finding you hilarious. It’s more about being on the same wavelength and
enjoying the other’s sense of humor too. Or finding humor in similar
situations or having a favorite serial or sitcom, which you talk about
and cracks you up. Finding the same joke funny, or sharing a smile,
draws you closer and makes you feel like kindred spirits. It’s a great
feeling!
7. Learn what turns her on
And use it to advantage.
Find out just the kind of touch that excites her, how she loves to be
kissed. Don’t ever push her for sex or make her uncomfortable by coming
on too strong. Let her see the effect she has on you, yet keep a strong
rein on your passions if she decides she wants to call a stop to it.
Let her set the pace, and ensure she understands that while your
desires for her are strong, you will respect the limits she sets.
Respect her and her body and she will appreciate you more for it. Women
love it when they can see how much they turn you on and yet find you
willing to take it slow for their sake. Also, when you make love to
her, don’t always kiss her or caress her as a lead up to having sex. Do
it just to make her feel special and because you want to convey that to
her, and she will adore you for it.
8. Give her space
Don’t be possessive and
make her account to you regarding her whereabouts. Let her know you
trust her. Don’t expect her to spend all her free time with you. Let
her have her own life too. Often when in a relationship, people make
the mistake of spending every waking moment that they can manage
together, and in the process, alienate themselves from friends and even
lose their identity. Let her be her own person.
9. Thoughtful
You remember little
things she told you, and remind her of it at opportune moments. It may
be that she once mentioned she loves having chicken soup when she’s got
a cold, and you land up with some when she’s got the sniffles. Or she’s
told you how she adores a particular entrée at a popular restaurant and
the next time you go there, you order it and surprise her. It makes her
feel like you genuinely listen to her and take the trouble to act on it
and make her happy.
10. “I love you”
And of course, while showing her should give her the message, there’s a lot to be said for saying
it loud and clear. Tell her how important she is to you. You might want
to think about when you’re first going to tell her those three words.
If it's too early in the relationship, she might be skeptical that you
could feel so deeply so soon. And thereafter, it's not just choosing
the right moment, but making every small moment count. You don’t have
to wait only till you’re kissing her, or in bed. Saying it when it's
least expected makes it all the more precious. She might be telling you
something and the feeling just overwhelms you – tell her at that
instant. She won’t mind being interrupted mid-sentence!
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